Week 2

For this assignment, I watched the reality television show, “Toddlers and Tiaras”.  I have never watched this show but I have seen a few commercials in the past.  This episode followed three girls, Rebecca (6 years), Meaghan (9 years), and Ava (2 years), all competing in the “Universal Royalty National Pageant” in Austin, Texas.  Additionally, the competition also includes a competition for adult women and all three of the mothers, Stacey, Phyllis, and Tanya, are also competing.

While watching the show on mute, I was able get the basic information, such as names, ages, locations, and parents’ names from the subtitles.  Based on the number of trophies, ribbons, sashes, and medals each girl has, they all appear to have experience competing in pageants.  The first contestant, Rebecca, is coached by her mother, Stacey, who appears to be serious but also friendly.  The second contestant, Meaghan, is also coached by her mother, Phyllis, who appears to be very serious and competitive.  I am assuming that she is competitive based on all of the coaching that she does while Meaghan is practicing.  The last girl, Ava, is coached by her father, David and her mother, Tanya, plays more of a supporting role.  David teaches Ava her routine, does her makeup and hair, and sews her costumes.  When the trophies are given out, all of the girls get different trophies and all of the parents, except for David, appear to be happy.  Without the sound on, it is difficult for me to understand why he appears to be so upset.  All of the parents appear to have good relationships with their daughters.  However, the relationship between Meaghan and Phyllis seems to be really competitive.  I was not able to detect any conflicts between the characters based on their non-verbal communication.  Except for David, I found it extremely difficult to try to read the feelings of the other cast members, based on their behavior, because they all just seem to smile a lot.

While watching with the sound on, I was not surprised that the assumptions that I made based on their non-verbal communication were mostly correct.  However, I do have to admit that I had preconceived notions about “pageant mothers” that were not correct.  I was expecting all of the mothers to be extremely competitive and for them to all be pushing their daughters really hard.  I had also assumed that all of the mothers would be former competitors but it was not mentioned and Phyllis was the only mother that appeared to be serious about their own competitions.  I do think that if I had watched this show in the past, my assumptions would have been more accurate.  Additionally, if I had been watching a show that I watch regularly, with characters that I already know about, my assumptions would have been based on the knowledge that I already have of those particular characters.