Several years ago, before I
finished my undergraduate degree, I worked at an elementary school as an
instructional aide. I worked in the
after-school program with four other aides and we all became very close. We worked very well together and we were a
“high performing group” dedicated to helping the students in the program. I worked there for four years until I
finished my degree and I was offered a teaching position at another
school.
The closing rituals that I have
personally experienced after working with a team or on a group project have
included: celebrating by going out for lunch or dinner, saying thank-you, and
saying goodbye but keeping in touch with my group or team members. As for my colleagues in this program, they
have varied from course to course.
However, I have appreciated their willingness to share their personal
experiences and their feedback.
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I think it is great when professional relationships are able to cross boundaries to form genuine personal friendships. I have been able to find some wonderful friends who started out as co-workers. Working closely with others can be a challenging task, but when you are able to find a real connection with others, it can make your work so much more enjoyable.
ReplyDeleteI had that same experience during my student teaching. Even though I only had a 16 week assignment, I grew very close with a lot of the students and the staff at the school. It was hard to say good-bye, but I definitely learned a lot during that experience. I still talk to several of the teachers there to this day. I teach in Arizona now, so we share ideas over the phone as much as possible! It only makes your relationship stronger.
ReplyDeleteMelissa,
ReplyDeleteGreat post and thanks for sharing,your experience. Do you personally find the adjourning stage very difficult when it comes to moving forward?
Jasmyn
It is amazing what a group can accomplish when they work together well and have a common goal. Those types of groups are very difficult to leave but if you do leave, at least you take away from that group the knowledge of how a good group can have much success. Thank you for your post.
ReplyDeleteMelissa,
ReplyDeleteIt has been great learning from you and and with you. I hope to share future courses with you! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and ideas!
Melissa,
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing and making the course more interesting. All the best of success.