Friday, December 6, 2013

Week 6: Adjourning

Several years ago, before I finished my undergraduate degree, I worked at an elementary school as an instructional aide.  I worked in the after-school program with four other aides and we all became very close.  We worked very well together and we were a “high performing group” dedicated to helping the students in the program.  I worked there for four years until I finished my degree and I was offered a teaching position at another school. 

 This group was difficult for me to leave because we became “a very close knit group” and there was a “sadness at separating and moving on” (Abudi, 2010).  Additionally, after working together for so long we had developed norms or “recurring patterns of behavior or thinking that come to be accepted as the ‘usual’ way of doing things” (O'- Hair & Wiemann, 2012).  However, adjourning is an essential stage of teamwork, when the team makes it to that stage, because it provides a sense of closure. 

The closing rituals that I have personally experienced after working with a team or on a group project have included: celebrating by going out for lunch or dinner, saying thank-you, and saying goodbye but keeping in touch with my group or team members.  As for my colleagues in this program, they have varied from course to course.  However, I have appreciated their willingness to share their personal experiences and their feedback.


Abudi, G. (2010). The five stages of team development: A case study. Retrieved from http://www.projectsmart.co.uk/the-five-stages-of-team-development-a-case-study.html

O'- Hair, D., & Wiemann, M. (2012). Real communication. New York: Bedford/St. Martin's.




6 comments:

  1. I think it is great when professional relationships are able to cross boundaries to form genuine personal friendships. I have been able to find some wonderful friends who started out as co-workers. Working closely with others can be a challenging task, but when you are able to find a real connection with others, it can make your work so much more enjoyable.

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  2. I had that same experience during my student teaching. Even though I only had a 16 week assignment, I grew very close with a lot of the students and the staff at the school. It was hard to say good-bye, but I definitely learned a lot during that experience. I still talk to several of the teachers there to this day. I teach in Arizona now, so we share ideas over the phone as much as possible! It only makes your relationship stronger.

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  3. Melissa,
    Great post and thanks for sharing,your experience. Do you personally find the adjourning stage very difficult when it comes to moving forward?

    Jasmyn

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  4. It is amazing what a group can accomplish when they work together well and have a common goal. Those types of groups are very difficult to leave but if you do leave, at least you take away from that group the knowledge of how a good group can have much success. Thank you for your post.

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  5. Melissa,

    It has been great learning from you and and with you. I hope to share future courses with you! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and ideas!

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  6. Melissa,
    Thanks for sharing and making the course more interesting. All the best of success.

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